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Hunter vs Prey…Take A Man On A Date

“Take A Man On A Date Month”.  Fortunately this year we’ve had very seasonably high weather so take a man on a date month was delayed until October, and it’s the first of the month!

It’s a natural that the men to a certain degree compete for attention from the women while the women are the ones to be choosy.  And if you are a choosy chick then this month is for you.  Make your choice and have fun!  Yes it may turn out ok, but consider all of the ways this can turn out.

Men generally have a lower bar for accepting dates or sex. Think about what this means for a second.  A woman can ask a man out and he accepts, is he accepting because he’s hungry,  or no one else has asked him out and wants to kill some time with you???  If he was genuinely interested in you then he would have asked you out *shrugs shoulders*.  A woman has a lot to lose and little to gain by asking a man out. A woman is better off subtly communicating her interest in the man (through friends, flirtation, etc) and then leaving it to the man to make a move.

I have no problems with asking or taking a man out on a date, However, I believe a man should initiate the 1st date if he is truly interested in a female.  No I do not care that it is 2017 and women are proposing, to me that just screams desperation.  Regardless of what, show me some interest and I’ll give you my time.  Please take the poll below, one is for my ladies, and the other is for the fellas.  Comment, Like, Share