Category Archives: Sexual Health

Why She May Not Want To Taste Your Love…

Ok so if you’re following me on SnapChat you know I do surveys with my audience.  Most men are quick to complain about how a woman smells or taste, but do they even evaluate themselves.  Well I asked my followers if they enjoyed tasting their man’s cum.  Surprisingly the majority that responded did not.  So here is where it gets interesting, most said that they wouldn’t mind felatio and swallowing if their man “tasted better” and a bad experience with one can turn them off entirely from ever sucking dick again.  A few reported that their lover tasted bitter, the majority said that it was too salty, and very few actually enjoyed their partners taste commenting that it had a slight sweet taste to it.


So I decided to question my audience further regarding their partners eating habits and lifestyle, wether they were active or not.  Some were able to shed light on what their partners diet consisted of.  I found that those who were coffee drinkers and heavy meat eaters reported bitter tasting cum, and those who did not watch what they eat or lead a healthy lifestyle reported the salty tasting cum, interestingly the ones who said their parters tasted sweat lead active lifestyles and were health conscious regarding the foods they consumed and exercisedfrequently.  So I gave the ladies who reported their men as having salty tasting semen additional homework, to find out wether or not their partner have high blood pressure.  So stay tuned, I will be doing a vlog on my youtube channel to follow up this article.  Feel free to comment or email and questions you might have.




The Healthy Penis Plan…

If you want the average basic man to pay attention to his health, what better way to do that than to tell him his balls will fall off or even mention ways he can increase the size of his manhood.  I mean let’s be realistic here for a moment, I’ve had this blog for a few years now, and I’ve noticed the difference when I 1st say it’s a health blog and then give my card the response is “oh ok, i’ll check it out”and they will put in their pocket, but then when I proceed to say “there are excercises and ways to make your penis bigger, or ways to keep your penis healthy” they take my card out wit this glow on their faces, give it a double take and perk up” (pun intended) now wanting to engage in conversation.  Now that I have your attention…. Your lifestyle will be reflective of the risks associated with your health.

The top 5 causes of death for men are…

  • Heart Disease: All those wings, fried food, will not only clog your arteries in your heart, but your vessels in your penis and you won’t be able to perform
  • Cancer:  The thought of getting a prostate exam freaks out many males still, smoking is a leisurely activity that is still on the rise, now all the chemo and radiation treatment you’re receiving tires you out and you can’t perform sexually anymore
  • Injuries:  If the police don’t kill you, then car accident from a drunken night probably will.
  • Stroke:  The consumption of high sodium foods have given rise to a generation plagued by hypertension, left untreated will cause the blood vessels in your brain to burst, or that fat from the high cholesterol foods consumed will break off and lodge in your head also causing a stroke
  • AIDS/HIV: Promiscuity has increased due to social networking, the surge in IG, twitter models and strip clubs, and backpage have made it possible for the basic male to live out their fantasy with little care for free or for a fee.

There is a silent crisis in America facing our men particularly Black males.  The average American man lives sicker and die an average of 5 years younger than American women.  As you know June is Men’s Health Month, this month we encourage men to get out and see their doctor, and know what is going on with their body.

Awareness, prevention, education and family are key.  Being in the health field, I know for a fact that most men only come to the MD office when their at home remedies no longer work, or until they can no longer tolerate the symptoms they are having.  Dear Black men, stop tuffing out situations, aches and pains are a sign of something brewing.  It is not a sign of weakness to take care of your body, and being ignorant to what your body is saying will do more harm than good.  At the end of the day you are ultimately responsible for your health so be proactive and take interest in your #1 priority which is you!

Valentines Yay or Valentines Nay???

The choice is yours, but I choose love! Love and sex nature’s tincture for a healthy mind, body.  What woman/man doesn’t want to be wined dined and 69’d especially on Valentines Day.  Yes you ought to show your lover affection and attention every other day of the year, but using that “line” as a way to get out of participating in Valentine festivities is totally lame.  If that’s the case don’t celebrate Mothers Day, New Years, and every other holiday.

I like to think of Valentines as a rebirth for lovers.  There are many ways to have a great time without having to break bank.  There are some vendors who offer decor  services for your habitat such as C & J Events along with a gift basket from Juicey BoxXx and some edible alcohol treats from vendors like Juicey DeLytes can start your night right!    On that note have an enjoyable evening with your loved one.


Desire a lover who understands well that intimacy, sensuality and passion are intricately connected to love making, and that sex is an expression of spiritual, and emotional communion and love as well as Lust and Desire….

My Sex Robot and I…Futuristic Sex…

     It’s a beautiful thing when science and sex intersect…from remote controlled dildos, vibrators, & fucking machines…to strokers that squirt, whatever the mind can conceive science has been able to achieve.  The need for sexual intimacy is not a want, but a need.  The touch, the scent , the kiss, the stroke from your partner has proven to have positive side effects on your health.
     If you had the chance to make your perfect mate would you?  Sex science has now introduced the new sex robots.  These life like dolls can be programmed to your desires.  What they look like, what they say, how tight their vagina is , how endowed they are … would be made to your specifications.  Imagine if you will a penis that can vibrate at different modes, silky smooth head (felatio) with a mouth that can vibrate at different modes too.
     People are constantly looking for love and affection.  A bad break up, a terrible divorce, the loss of a spouse can be very damaging emotionally.  Whatever stage you are at in your life, companionship and intimacy are natural instincts that can’t be denied.  Trust issues is also a problem for many.  It’s one thing to cheat on your partner, but to cheat and bring a disease to your partner is unforgivable.  At least with these new dolls you wouldn’t have to worry about the spread of diseases.
     My only concern with these robots would be if they were to have an IRobot moment.   Imagine this …..  So you get home and your sex robot is charged then you say come eat my vagina then he goes no suck my dick bitch and then just proceeds to occupy every orifice of your body then makes you his sex slave.  These are the questions i would love for the developer of this product to address with me.  Will my robot get hooked on this pussy???  Will he turn into a stalker will he try to kill me if I go get some humanoid penis…”real dick”???  Check out the video and comment below what you think.  What would be your thoughts or concerns about the Sex Robot???

2 Vaginas Are Better Than One…. here’s why

So naturally being the inquisitive person that I am, after meeting THE DDD (Double Dick Dude) the next thing that crossed my mind was are there any women, or a woman in existence with 2 vaginas.  Oh the fun I would have, first thing that came to mind was revolutionizing the threesome.  Yes you can loose your virginity twice…and no it doesn’t have to be with the same person!  But before I indulge in some fantaserial imagery let’s see what this abnormality is about.  Surprisingly I did find a few women with this condition.  It turns out that women with 2 vaginas are much more common than a man with 2 penis’.  Most popular person with this condition is Cassandra Bankson and Hazel Jones who have uterus didelphys.  This condition manifests itself in different ways.  A woman can have:

  • 1 vaginal opening with 2 different uteri (uterus duplex bicollis)
  • 2 vaginal openings with 1 uterus
  • 2 vaginal openings with 2 seperate uteri (uterus didelphys)

As always I like to address the con’s before the pro’s.  Issues related to this condition commonly are with fertility and fetal development.  Now as with any normal female reproductive system, if a woman has 2 uteri then naturally will have 2 periods which these women report an increase in pain.  The bad thing is if they occur different times, most of the month will be spent bleeding.  The good thing is if you have 2 different vaginal openings, then simply place a tampon in one, and continue on with your sexual activities.  Of course if a woman has 2 uteri it’s possible to become pregnant in both, and there are several cases of this, some conceived at the same time, and some conceived different times.  You need to be in tune with your body so as to not make it “controlling” of your life.

Oh what fun and pleasure it would be to have your partner fluctuating between each orifice, or even having sex and using a sex toy at the same damn time all that’s registering in my vaginal receptors is bliss, pure vaginal bliss.  Not to mention if you and your partner engage in threesomes, I see having a second vagina a gift from the GODS.

So I Discovered a Man with TWO PENIS’ !!!

Yes you read that right TWO PENIS’. It’s Penis Appreciation Month and what better topic of discussion than Diphalia, the medical terminology given to males who are born with 2 penis’, or sometimes referred to as Penis Duplication (PD).  So naturally being a woman the first thing that popped up into my head was the fun I would have with a partner who had this condition.  One penis is vaginal bliss, but 2 oh my I think I would be in heaven.  I mean like can you imagine the threesomes.  Ok, so let’s understand what fully goes on here…there is also a downside to being doubly endowed.  Males who are born with this condition suffer from urinary tract infections, renal problems, spina bifida, prostate problems, and have fertility issues. Diphalia manifests itself in 3 different ways,

  • Two identical penis’ sided by side
  • Less commonly seen is the smaller penis on top of the larger one
  • Second penis being internal (found during medical visit for urinary problems)

So now that we have addresses the medical part, let me introduce you to The Doubled Dick Dude, or DDD as he likes to be referred to.  DDD is a bisexual male who has diphalia and is very open with his condition.  Both of his penis’ are uncircumcised and fully functioning measuring in @ 8″.  DDD is fully open with his condition, and had cured alot of peoples curiosity on Reddit’s AMA (Ask Me Anything).  He shares his pictures freely with the public to quench the curiosity of those wanting to know what having 2 penis’ look like.  He admits that he must ejaculate frequently, or the build up of seminal fluid can be painful and affect his prostate, and the use of a cock ring helps to get both penis’ fully erect.  DDD has been offered the opportunity to do porn many times, but has turned it down stating…

“I can’t figure a value for my dignity.  The only reason I let photos out is because I thought people might like to know, at least one guy with two normal dicks exist.” 


DDD has since written a book “My Life WIth Two Penises” .  Is in a current relationship and is doing well.

Vagina Politics…What’s Your Status ???

I am loving the responsibility that was shown tonight on Blood Sweat and Heels.  What better platform to showcase Vagina Politics.  If you have been watching the show, this season the ladies are dealing with real life issues that everyone can identify and relate to.  For those who don’t know, Mica has experienced alot of loss in her life.  Last season it was her father, this season it’s her grandmother.  They have all affected her, but Mica opens up about how the loss of her sister to AIDS has affected her relationships and trust.  Mica now has a new lover, and they are now looking to take their relationship to the next level by becoming intimate.  She openly lets him know her concerns with intimacy, and that they both must do an HIV test.  Not that she plans on having unprotected sex with him immediately, but that condoms do break, and eventually she would like to have a child.  The two take on OTC (over the counter) test which takes 20mins, and read their results which show that neither have the virus.  It’s nice to see some responsibility on these “reality shows” vs only seeing pointless male female, and catty drama. Kudos the cast of Blood, Sweat and Heels.  All the best to each of you especially Daisy!