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Love to Lust…from We to Me

Whether you want to admit it or not, social media has made it easier to cheat on your partner.  Back in the day you needed to actually see someone and get their number, to engage with them.  Now you can easily slide into anyone’s DM on any given network at anytime.  Then comes the meet up, your place, my place, or the telley (hotel), but what usually takes place is the non physical approach, the swappage of intimate pics (sexting).

You’ve seen this person time to time online, and have your own image of them built in your head based off looks, but we have to dig deeper than the flesh to realize true beauty.  I’m not referring to females only, but males also.  Now-a-days I think men are quicker to take/send pics than females.  For some basic thinking male species they think the lure of the dick print or actual image of a well endowed one is all they need to GTD (get the draws) #RIP Tommy, and in some cases it does work, because what men fail to realize is that women can smash and dash too and not be hypnotized by their pendulum.

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So now you have cheated and your partner finds out, what’s next, do you forgive or not???

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Well reasons and rationale for forgiveness were pretty much the same for both male and female surveyors.  Contrary to popular belief 80% of the males would forgive their partner, and 85% of females would forgive their mate.  Key factors to that decision were the type of cheating involved, physical, emotional or sexting.   It was hard for the males to come to term with the fact that females can hit and quit too.  Males mostly thought that the reason a female cheated were for emotional purposes solely.  Times have changed, and so have the behaviors of both sexes.  I had to let the men know that women don’t only cheat emotionally, but we can have a strictly physical relationship and not get emotionally attached.

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Pride and ego the biggest destroyers of relationships.  Are you humble enough to admit your wrongs and verbalize how you truly feel to save your relationship?  Can things ever be the same?… both male and female agreed that there  would always be a lingering thought of their partners infidelity, trust would be hard to earn again.  With that said do you let go or move on.  Whatever your choice is, make sure it is one that you’re happy and satisfied with.  The best solution to cheating is to never have to do it to begin with.  If you feel the need to stray, have an open relationship or just leave.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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