Category Archives: Let’s Talk About Sex

Masturbate and Be Great!

May is National Masturbation Month and a great time to recognize the beautiful orgasmic person that you can be.  Take time to make pleasure for yourself.  It’s 2017 and the use of vibrators, and strokers can only make this solo performance that much more pleasurable.   Keep updated with pleasurable adult toys and products that will take you on that journey.  Visit my YouTube channel and check out some of my favorite items from Juicey BoxXx.  But before you do please take our survey below.

 

 

 

<noscript><a href=”http://polldaddy.com/poll/9738818/”>How Often Do You Masturbate???</a></noscript

Touch Me and I’ll Touch You Back…Mutual Masturbation

Whether it’s a hand job, foot job or titty fuck, mutual masturbation can be very pleasurable for you and your partner.  If you decide to do a foot job, PLEASSSSSE make sure your feet are well groomed, free of callous and most importantly smell good.  When doing a foot job, simply place your partners penis between the soles of your feet which are facing each other and massaging the penis in an up and down rolling motion.  I do recommend using a cooling or warming lubricant for a better feel and ease in maneuvering the penis.

 

Next we have titty fucking or boob job.  Women who have bigger breast and men who have a longer penis would enjoy this kind of mutual masturbation.  This masturbation the man is stimulating his penis by carrying out frictions between a woman’s breasts.  Again the use of lube is always a plus.  An added benefit to this type of mastubation is the ability of the lady to also give a topper (blow job) at the same time.

 

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Masturbation is not limited to solely hand jobs, but each other’s genitals can be stimulated with another body part or with toys.  Yes fellas no longer are we in the archaic age of hand masturbation solely. With so many wonderful adult toys for you and your partner to experience mutual masturbation will take foreplay to heightened levels of sexual satisfaction.  Strokers, cock rings and vibrating sheaths for him and a variety of vibrators or dildos for her to take on this sexual journey.

 

The most thrilling satisfying sex involves all senses.  The most common mutual masturbation is that which is done manually/digitally.  Get involved in your foreplay and explore her most erogenous zones such as breast nipples and genitals, this will make her vagina start to crave your penis.  The inflow of blood to her genitals, saturating her vaginal mucosa with lubrication (making her extremely wet)  preparing for you to beat the pussy up.  A woman, in turn, is stimulating the man’s penis, increasing his level of excitation, strengthening the erection and starting the process of preparing his penis to explore your frontier getting ready for ejaculation wether it be into her mouth, ass or vagina he will be very pleased with the end result.

The harder the better the wetter you’ll get her so treasure your pleasure. There is nothing more satisfying than you and your partner cumming at the same time, so give your partner a heads up and let them know orgasm is near then BAM enjoy your explosive orgasm.

 

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World AIDS Day 2016…Do You Like It Raw???

35 years later and people still having sex randomly raw. Sexual behavior, sexual fluidity, homosexuality and promiscuity is at an all time high, sexual behaviors have changed from where we only indulge in soul baring behavior with that one special person to having mind-blowing sex with every Tom, Dick, Harry, Mary and Jane.  Let’s not be surprised that NY has the highest rates of persons with HIV according to the CDC.  But I guess with Magic  Johnson being the “Poster Boy” of “how you will live with the disease if you were to contract it”  no one really cares about their sexual behaviors, and raw dawgging before getting tested with your partner.  Would a “scared straight” approach to society seeing the effects this disease has on the body be more effective in people being more responsible?

From the infusion of antiretroviral drug dapivirine  into contraceptive devices such as the Nuva Ring, PReP (Pre exposure Prophylaxis) a daily pill that people can take to decrease their chance of contracting the disease, progress has been made in the battle against AIDS has this given people a more lackadaisical attitude to this deadly disease?  Prevention is always better than cure, so despite the many ways there are to combat this disease being cautious and protecting yourself by having “safe protected sex” is always best!

Great steps have been made in antiretroviral treatments for the fight against AIDS/HIV, but a prolonged life doesn’t necessarily mean a quality life.  A person who is fortunate enough to find a regime that works for them and is compliant can have the same life expectancy as someone without the virus.  There are different strands of AIDS/HIV, some are more deadly than others.  Let’s not forget that AIDs can be a very debilitating disease with an entourage of complications.  I’ve seen the course of this disease and what it does, not only does it affect the individual, but the family as well.  Family might not be there all the time so support groups such as Project Samaritan are essential to helping those affected along their journey.  Love yourself by protecting yourself a moment of pleasure is not worth fighting a disease for life.  Be safe and be blessed.

 

“These global efforts bring hope on this World AIDS Day that an end to the HIV/AIDS pandemic is achievable. We applaud the trial participants, researchers, health care professionals, advocates and others who are working to make this future a reality.”  NIH Statement On World Aids Day 2016

 

Can You Hang???

Nothing is worse than the feeling of not being satisfied by your partner.  When asked how long should a man last in bed for it to be satisfying,  both men and women were fairly on the same page with the exception of a few.  I asked both males and female since women are usually complaining about their lover not lasting in bed or satisfying them long enough to see if the answers I received would be reflective of the complaints.

5% women  reported over 30 mins or all night

20, 25, & 30 mins were the most popular answers for my female audience 80%

15% women only needed 10mins or less

 

Now my male response was very interesting….

75% men responded with 45 mins or all night

10% was fine with 20-30 mins

15% 15 mins or less was cool.

 

🤔 hmmm … the responses I received from males weren’t reflective of the stereotype that women are the ones who wants longer pussy pounding time.  So I took into account that everyone especially the males know I am seeing their response so they probably decided to add some extra time on their belt knowing a lady was taking their answers.  Next time I will use my online anonymous poll to revisit this question and give an update.

 

Another interesting point is that the males who responded they needed 15mins or less equated that time with the pussy being “good” and anything longer meant that it’s “trash”😂😭😭.  Which I disagree with because maybe she wants an extended sex session.  So again we can not go around assuming that what we are delivering is satisfying unless we COMMUNICATE.

 

This article is not intended for the quickie moments, Sidechick, or jump off because that’s when you get a stalker with a fantasy relationship so please know that jump offs are not deserving of the A1 pipe or A1 Coochie.

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Why She May Not Want To Taste Your Love…

Ok so if you’re following me on SnapChat you know I do surveys with my audience.  Most men are quick to complain about how a woman smells or taste, but do they even evaluate themselves.  Well I asked my followers if they enjoyed tasting their man’s cum.  Surprisingly the majority that responded did not.  So here is where it gets interesting, most said that they wouldn’t mind felatio and swallowing if their man “tasted better” and a bad experience with one can turn them off entirely from ever sucking dick again.  A few reported that their lover tasted bitter, the majority said that it was too salty, and very few actually enjoyed their partners taste commenting that it had a slight sweet taste to it.

 

So I decided to question my audience further regarding their partners eating habits and lifestyle, wether they were active or not.  Some were able to shed light on what their partners diet consisted of.  I found that those who were coffee drinkers and heavy meat eaters reported bitter tasting cum, and those who did not watch what they eat or lead a healthy lifestyle reported the salty tasting cum, interestingly the ones who said their parters tasted sweat lead active lifestyles and were health conscious regarding the foods they consumed and exercisedfrequently.  So I gave the ladies who reported their men as having salty tasting semen additional homework, to find out wether or not their partner have high blood pressure.  So stay tuned, I will be doing a vlog on my youtube channel to follow up this article.  Feel free to comment or email and questions you might have.

 

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Stroke It For Me

So it’s National Masturbation Month fellas are you in touch with yourself???  Masturbation is the 1st step to sexual self discovery that we learn early as a child exploring our bodies.  The question then becomes why does that exploration stop, or why do some feel embarrassed to touch themselves???  We need to become in tune with our bodies and what it is telling us.  As we age things change and move, and so does the way we like to be pleased.  You should be able to identify both the external and internal changes that occur with your body.   Exploration should continue into adulthood. Learning what pleases you and how to communicate that to your partner is recognizing our sexual needs and wants.
When you masturbate, pay attention to your sensitive spots, where you would like your partner to concentrate on, how fast or slow your preference of stroking is, and how you ejaculate.  Break away from the shyness of exploring your body.  There is no shame in using a stroker.  If you do decide to purchase a stroker, or ” pocket pussy” as they are most commonly referred to make sure it is silicone or cyberskin, those are the best ones.  Life has enough obstacles to overcome in general, why make sex one.  Check out my video below and make sure to subscribe to my channel for future updates.

 

 

Pisces…Which Sign Do You Love To Intertwine With???

Can you help who you are attracted to???  Does your former experience play a role in the next sexual encounter you occur???  Take our poll below and let us know!